Multi-Generational Home Buying Tips
By Phil Slezak – Raleigh Real Estate Agent
If you’ve been thinking about buying a home to share with extended family—parents, kids, or even both—you’re not alone. More and more Raleigh families are embracing multi-generational living as a way to strengthen bonds, share costs, and enjoy more quality time together.
As someone who works with buyers and investors in and around Raleigh every day, I can tell you this trend isn’t going anywhere. But buying a multi-gen home takes careful planning. Here are the essential tips I give my clients to help them find a home that fits everyone under one roof.
1. Start With a Family Meeting
Before you look at a single home, sit down with your family and talk openly. Who’s moving in? What does each person need to feel comfortable? Will anyone need privacy, a ground-level bedroom, or a quiet workspace?
Clarifying everyone's priorities upfront helps you make smarter decisions when house hunting—and it makes sure everyone feels heard from the start.
2. Look for Flexible Floor Plans
A great multi-generational home isn’t just about size—it’s about layout. In Raleigh, I often guide clients toward homes with:
In-law suites or separate entrances
Dual primary bedrooms
Finished basements or third floors
Homes with ADUs (Accessory Dwelling Units)
Areas like North Raleigh, Cary, and Wake Forest have some fantastic options designed with extended families in mind.
3. Prioritize Privacy and Comfort
Everyone under one roof means more activity—and potentially more tension. That’s why private spaces are key to long-term harmony.
Think:
Separate bathrooms
Zoned HVAC systems
Sound-insulated walls
Defined living spaces for each generation
A well-thought-out home will give everyone the space they need to thrive together.
4. Think Accessibility and Aging in Place
If your parents or older relatives will be living with you, consider their mobility needs—now and in the future. Homes with first-floor bedrooms, walk-in showers, no-step entries, and wide doorways are ideal.
Raleigh has many newer communities that include universal design features. I can help you find one that checks both the style and accessibility boxes.
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5. Understand the Finances
Buying a home with multiple people can make more possible—but it also means more paperwork. Make sure to:
Discuss ownership structure (joint tenants, LLC, etc.)
Decide who pays what—mortgage, maintenance, utilities
Work with a lender who understands multi-gen situations
Set expectations about future equity or sale
This is where a great real estate agent (hi, that’s me!) and a good financial advisor become essential.
6. Choose the Right Neighborhood
You’re not just buying a house—you’re choosing a lifestyle. Look for areas with:
Easy access to medical care (important for aging parents)
Good schools (if kids are involved)
Parks, trails, and community amenities
A strong sense of community
In Raleigh, places like Brier Creek, Holly Springs, and Apex often check all these boxes.
7. Plan for the Long-Term
Will the kids be moving out in a few years? Could grandparents eventually need more care? What happens if someone wants to sell?
Having a long-term plan will keep your investment solid and your family relationships strong.
How Phil Slezak Real Estate Can Help You
At Phil Slezak Real Estate, brokered by LPT Realty, we do more than just help you find a home—we make sure your entire moving process is stress-free and seamless. Whether you’re buying, selling, investing, or relocating, we have the resources, expertise, and connections to guide you every step of the way.
Why Work With Us?
✔ Exclusive Off-Market Listings – Get access to homes before they hit the market.
✔ Zero-Commission Selling Options – Save thousands when selling your home.
✔ Relocation Assistance – We connect you with the best movers in Raleigh for a smooth transition.
✔ Buyer Home Guarantee – If your home isn’t perfect, we’ll sell it for zero listing commission.
✔ Sold Zero Commission – Maximize your profits with no listing commission when selling your home.
✔ Cash Offers – Get 4 cash offers on your home in minutes
Conclusion:
Multi-generational home buying is a smart and growing trend here in Raleigh—and it can be incredibly rewarding when done right. Whether you're blending households for financial reasons, caregiving, or simply to be closer to loved ones, I’m here to help guide you every step of the way. From finding the right floor plan to navigating financing and closing, I’ll make sure your family finds a home that works for everyone.
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